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Kanga
02-23-2007, 11:31 PM
I subscribe to a dog newsletter and this was an article I received.....

Thought it worth sharing .... Enjoy :)
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Licking or Kissing

Is your dog kissing you when he slurps your face like a lollipop? Although we may never know, there are several possible explanations for this behavior, not all of which are mutually exclusive. The motivation for face licking appears to vary for different dogs and different circumstances.

Background

Dogs lick for a number of reasons, some of which are purely biological:

# Bitches lick their newborn pups to arouse them from their postpartum daze. In this situation, licking serves to remove clingy membranes from the pup, freeing him up to move and stimulating him to breathe.

# Once the birthing and clean-up processes are over, the mom dog's licking her pups stimulates them to eliminate both urine and feces. It is a couple of weeks before pups will eliminate spontaneously.

# Licking also serves another more romantic role in the sense that it is a comfort behavior that assists with pups' bonding to their mom and spurs on their mental development.

# From about six weeks of age, some pups lick their mom's lips when they want her to regurgitate food for them. They lick; she vomits; they eat it. This behavior is a vestige of their wild ancestry and was designed to ensure that they profited from the spoils of the hunt.

# Licking can also be a signal of submission and so is part of dog's body language communication system.

# Pups and adults lick and groom themselves. It is part of normal survival-oriented behavior. Licking their own lips, limbs, and trunk removes traces of the last meal that would otherwise begin to decompose and smell. Quite apart from the hygienic aspects of this behavior, it also serves to keep dogs relatively odor free and thus olfactorily invisible to their prey. Domestic dogs retain these instincts even though they are not vital today.

Psychology

Dogs, like people, engage in a number of "displacement behaviors" when nervous or stressed, and many of these behaviors involve self-grooming. You only have to glance to the side the next time you are stuck at a red light to see what I mean. The driver next to you will likely be stroking his hair, looking in the mirror, or trying to pick something out from between his teeth.

Dogs do not experience the stop-go conflict of the traffic lights but they do have their own share of dilemmas. Take going to the vet's office, for example. We vets expect our more anxious patients to begin nervously licking their own lips as they enter the clinic. They may even lick or nibble their feet or flank.

There is no doubt that some dogs lick as a gesture of appeasement and goodwill. They may lick their own lips or may lick a person to whom they wish to signal deference. If the recipient of the licking interprets this behavior as "make-up kisses," that's just fine. Perhaps the behavior is analogous to some forms of human kissing and thus their interpretation may be close to the truth.

However, not all dogs seem penitent when they slurp the faces of people they meet. For some dogs, it seems that they engage in face licking because they can get away with it and because it gets a rise out of the person. When licking is performed for such a reason, it may be component of the ?center stage,? attention-demanding behavior of dominant dogs. No lick! is a good command to have working for these guys.

Psychopathology

Some sensitive dogs in stressful environments compulsively groom themselves to the point of self-injury. Licking of this type leads to acral lick dermatitis (a.k.a. lick granuloma). Compulsive licking by dogs is not always self-directed. Some dogs take to licking floors, walls, or furniture. Whatever the outward expression of compulsive licking, the mechanics underlying the disorder are the same. In treatment of this condition, first the underlying anxiety must be addressed though, in some cases, it is also necessary to employ anti-compulsive medication to help break the cycle.

Lovey Dovey?

I don't believe dogs express their sometimes quite profound feelings for their owners by licking or "kissing." In fact, I don't believe dogs really ?kiss? at all. Perhaps some dogs are so awed by their owners that they feel the need to signal their ongoing deference by face licking. Call it love, if you will.

One other thing we should always bear in mind is that any behavior can be enhanced learning. Psychologist BF Skinner immortalized the concept that reward increases the likelihood of a response. So it is with licking. If a dog licks his owner's face ? perhaps as a vestige of maternal lip licking, perhaps out of anxiety, or just because his owner's face tastes salty ? and his behavior is greeted with attention, hugs and (human) kisses, he will likely repeat the behavior in future. In such cases the dog learns just how to push he owners buttons and the owner becomes analogous to a vending machine.

So while face licking may not represent true romantic love, it nevertheless can sometimes be interpreted as some token of a dog's affection or respect ? and that's nothing to sniff at.

maltesemum
02-24-2007, 02:47 AM
My vet told me that when a pup licks your face it is the first sign of a healthy puppy!

Whether it is love i don't know but i do think my dogs have been trained to give kisses & if it makes both feel good then that's a GOOD thing:D :smlove2:

Kanga
02-24-2007, 04:24 AM
My vet told me that when a pup licks your face it is the first sign of a healthy puppy!

Whether it is love i don't know but i do think my dogs have been trained to give kisses & if it makes both feel good then that's a GOOD thing:D :smlove2:


Yep I agree. I love Scrappy's kisses :smlove2:

I Found Nemo
02-24-2007, 05:05 AM
Its also clean. People may not know this, but A dog's mouth is actually cleaner than a humans:D I would like to think its just plain old love, Nemo kisses me cause he loves me..
Andrea~

dogloverx4
02-24-2007, 11:45 AM
Gee Bren , thanks for taking all the romance out - ROFL . Now when the dogs kiss me , I'm going to get suspicious !!! Sarah:D

MaxJack'sMom
02-24-2007, 12:04 PM
That was a great posting. No matter what anyone says, Jack gives us hugs and kisses every day, and that's the way I love it.

KMitchell
02-24-2007, 12:32 PM
I love Mia's kisses!! They make me smile and really brighten my day!

Morkie4
02-24-2007, 01:23 PM
Toby kisses on demand and sometimes does a nose kiss! Kallie is a licker but only to hubby so I told hubby that Kallie thinks HE is her puppy!!!! They have a regular licking routine..........I just sit and pass a towel when she is done!:D

Kanga
02-24-2007, 01:42 PM
Toby kisses on demand and sometimes does a nose kiss! Kallie is a licker but only to hubby so I told hubby that Kallie thinks HE is her puppy!!!! They have a regular licking routine..........I just sit and pass a towel when she is done!:D

hahaha sounds like my house. Hubby has been known to leap out of bed to go have another shower lol Just the other night Hubby turned to me after yet another good licking by Scrappy to say "I thought he didn't like citrus" he had new soap that was citrus scented....

Scrappy when he hears the word "Goodbye' will give you a nose lick.

MaxJack'sMom
02-24-2007, 01:46 PM
Toby kisses on demand and sometimes does a nose kiss! Kallie is a licker but only to hubby so I told hubby that Kallie thinks HE is her puppy!!!! They have a regular licking routine..........I just sit and pass a towel when she is done!:D

Jack is ready, willing and able to be licked by his 'favorite girl'.:smlove2: He has his bath towel all ready!!

Morkie4
02-24-2007, 02:59 PM
Jack is ready, willing and able to be licked by his 'favorite girl'.:smlove2: He has his bath towel all ready!!
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Red Rover, Red Rover, Send Jack right over!!!!!!!:smlove2: :smlove2:

MaxJack'sMom
02-24-2007, 07:45 PM
Carol!!!!!!!!!!! are you dating yourself with that 'Red Rover, Red Rover' game? I played that game as a kid.

Jack has his beach towel all ready, along with his sun tan lotion. He barks that he doesn't need anything else but his lady love, a bowl of chilled water, special doggie treats, and a beachfront condo:island2: to enjoy the company of his Kallie. He would have started off on his journey tonight, but we got hit with a major storm.

bek74
02-27-2007, 08:00 PM
Mine give kisses :D :smlove2:

Morkie4
02-27-2007, 08:44 PM
Carol!!!!!!!!!!! are you dating yourself with that 'Red Rover, Red Rover' game? I played that game as a kid.

Jack has his beach towel all ready, along with his sun tan lotion. He barks that he doesn't need anything else but his lady love, a bowl of chilled water, special doggie treats, and a beachfront condo:island2: to enjoy the company of his Kallie. He would have started off on his journey tonight, but we got hit with a major storm.

Dating myself??? Oh no, of course not. My mommy use to tell me stories about when SHE played that came!!! YOU played that game???? Hmmm, sounds like you are dating yourself!!!

Oh and tell Jack not to worry, we have several beach towels already and plenty of sun tan lotion. He and Kalllie can sit by the edge of the pool or lounge on the chair together and watch the sun set!!! Fresh water and good food awaits him!!! She may even wear her bikini!!!

MaxJack'sMom
02-28-2007, 05:32 PM
Jack has that twinkle in his eye as I told him about the bikini!!
I guess I did date myself here.:tongue6:
Am I one of the oldest members on this forum? :fainted: I just turned 53 last month.